September 30th, 2012- the day when Amma retired as a teacher with 30 years of service. I wasn't there to attend the retirement function, so I asked my sister to capture the moment for me. I was told who attended the function everyone had a lot to say about amma, of course all nice things. Her colleagues, students, family and friends.
I always knew that amma is a good teacher, both professionally and otherwise. We always had, and still have, something to learn from her. I could write a 10-page essay on what kind of a person amma is, and what she went through to keep her family safe and secure. Only, words won't be sufficient to express my emotions.
Anyway, about the function- although everybody showered my mum with their blessings, gratitude and love, I think my father had it all. I have seen my parents disagreeing, and teasing each other in all ups and downs of their 33 years of marriage. I always wondered why there weren't many times when they appreciated each other, or if they really are in love.
Today, I know how much they love each other although they don't express their love as westerners do or as the younger generation does. I'll never forget my father's words "She gave a meaning to my life; in fact she gave a life"
Amma, this is for you!
I know how much you missed spending time with your family when you had to travel long distances and work very hard. We missed you too. I hope you'll get that 7-day weekend now, and get to spend as much time as you wish with father. I LOVE YOU.
